Sunday, April 17, 2016



      Spirits of the fallen stars come forth from the grave and speak to the living. Tell us, where did it all go wrong?  Where did money, fancy clothes, and shiny cars turn into the frowns that left scars?  We need to know what it is in super-stardom that tends to lead individuals down the path of self-destruction.  Did we hear but fail to listen when you spoke to us of being a prisoner in your own home?  Is it a fact that life at the top is so lonely that it is not worth living? 
Speak to the thousands of aspiring youths, whose dream is to follow in your footsteps, and caution them of the pitfalls.  Hold up a sign that says “beware” before another person takes the fatal step into the dungeon of stardom.
The list reads like the “Who’s Who of America”: Marilyn, Elvis, Janis, Kurt, Jimi, Anna Nicole, and Michael.  Are there any left?  Oh, dare I forget Jim! There was something about that “door” that once you entered you never wanted to leave.  Yes, I’m talking about the door of fame that opens into the living room of fortune.  Is it “grateful” being dead, or is there greatness in “staying alive?” 
Where is it “Mr. and Miss Grave Yard Socialite” that you go for the “Great Reunion in the Sky?”  Is it in the mist of clouds that whirl over the mansion in Memphis, or in the sparkling sunshine that leads the way to Never-Never-Land?   Is it your presence that is felt in the hum of the gentle winds that sweep across the sloping plains of Max Yasgur’s Farm?  I doubt we who are living will ever know, but one thing we do understand, you are not with us any more and we miss you.
We cannot help but wonder what it is that makes so many want to follow in your footsteps.  We hear our friends say, “If I had the looks of Marilyn” or “If I could sing like Elvis or dance like Michael” I would be happy.  Somewhere “Mr. Happy” got lost in the shuffle. 
As “Mr. and Mrs. Public”, we saw the talent, but we did not recognize the sorrow.  We saw a bosom of glamour, but we failed to see a heart. We saw a shield of emeralds, but we did not see a person.  What we saw was a puppet on a string used as a moneymaking machine.  Not just for yourself but for many others who surrounded you. 
“Mr. and Miss Entertainment,” you did not set a good example for those who desire to be like you.  If this is what fame and fortune brings, those of us from grassroots America should be proud.  The days, the hours, and the moments, all the time that we spend being happy is sufficient for our contentment. We wish that in some way we could have extended that happiness to you. 
If we failed you by looking at the glamour and not into your heart, we are truly sorry.  Even though our apology may be too late for you, maybe we can stop others from getting caught in the trap of “Fame and Fortune Addiction.”

Saturday, April 2, 2016



   It was a typical classroom that seated about 40 college students.  The students’ desks were arranged in rows that faced a large chalkboard that hung unbalanced on the wall.  The room was drab, painted a dull, off-shade color of white with bare walls. A plain, wooden teacher’s desk sat in one corner, collecting dust from disuse.  A short, skinny sociology professor—a PHD—stood behind a lecture stand making the final remarks in a lecture entitled “The Characteristics of Primitive Man.” I was seated near the middle of that room surrounded by a group of strangers that otherwise were called students. With one semester already under my belt, I was bored and was considering dropping out.
   All of a sudden, an emotion, driven by an inquiring mind, forced my hand into the air.  The professor looked up, pushed the reading glasses up on his nose, raised his eyebrows in a gesture of surprise, looked back down and continued the lecture. I could not remember any time in my college experience that a student had actually asked a question.  So I waved my hand in a show of determination.
   Once again the professor looked up, removed his glasses, rested his elbows on the lecture stand, and spoke in a disgustingly monotone voice.
    “Yes, young man? Do you have something you want to say?”
    “Yes, sir. I want to know if there were any homosexuals in primitive societies.”
   A moment of silence occurred as a confused professor took a step backwards, cleared his throat, turned and started to write something on the board.  Then he suddenly turned again, faced the class, and pointed with his glasses. 
   “I don’t know, but I WILL find out.”
   Again he turned and wrote the word anthropology on the board.  He faced the students in an attempt to continue the lecture, but was saved by the bell.  The students quickly gathered their possessions, and keeping a safe distance from me, hurried off to their next class.
   It was Sociology 101 and the class would meet again on Friday. The Friday 10:00 o’clock hour came much too quick and the students were neatly arranged in their seats with pencils and paper in hand. The tardy bell rang, but the professor did not show.  The students were waiting patiently when all of a sudden the little man bounced through the door carrying an arm load of books. He pranced across the room and piled the books on the desk in the corner. He carefully selected a folder and briskly walked to the lecture stand.  He leaned forward, pulled the reading glasses under his eyes, and stared directly at the students.   In a voice that had not been heard before, he spoke firmly, “Yes sir, there were homosexuals in primitive societies. In fact, my research revealed that there have been homosexuals in almost all societies.”
   With those words he ran across the room and jumped upon the teacher’s desk.  He whirled around and pointed with his glasses. “Have you ever heard of Margaret Mead?” he asked. “She was one of the most renowned of all anthropologists. She wrote, and I quote, ‘in my studies of the primitive tribes of South Africa, I found many effeminate males assigned specific duties in tribal societies.’”
   He jumped from the desk and ran to the back of the room.  The students were shocked and sat motionless, being afraid to even turn and face the lecturer.
   “And above all that,” he continued, “in some primitive societies, effeminate males were held in high esteem.”
   “Wow!” was one response.
   “Oh, no!” murmured the sounds of another.
   “Yes, it is believed that some homosexuals had mystical powers, the ability to look into two separate realms of the spirit world.”
   “What?” Louder voices reverberated from across the room. 
  “Have you ever heard of the city of Babylon, the city of Athens or Rome – even Cairo, Egypt? I have it all right here in black and white.” He pointed to the books.  “In all those places homosexuality was once a popular lifestyle.”
  “Oh, no,” was heard again.
  “Not really?” Another spoke.
  “What did you say, man?”
  “I said homosexuality was a popular lifestyle until King James came along. It was after that when religious leaders started that distasteful approach to the gay lifestyle.”
   Pencils were dropped to the floor, but otherwise silence dominated.
   I, the guy who started it all, suffered from the emotion of guilt. I had asked this little, old man one question, and apparently it had driven him crazy.  With the remarks he had made, I was sure there would be an all-out student rebellion. Parents would withdraw their children from college, students would get up and march out of the classrooms, and this man would lose his job. What – had – I - done? I hung my head in shame, afraid to face the students.  But finally curiosity set in, and I had to raise my eyes. The professor was back at the lecture stand continuing a fireball lecture. It was a spiritual uplifting much like going to church on Sunday. The scene had changed and a feeling of success pounded at me. I raised my head high and puffed my chest. A miracle had occurred.  The classroom had been turned into an exciting place for learning.  Suddenly, students were jumping up from all over the room and asking questions.
    “Sir, are you talking about the King James version?”
   “Sir, what ever happened to Margaret Mead?”
   “I don’t know.”
  “But, sir, what about the red-letter edition?”
  “I’m not sure.”
  It was at that moment that I made an important decision, one of the best in my lifetime.  I would remain a student at the university.